When Life Gives You Lemons… Make Limoncello

There’s a hush that settles over the Kalahari in winter. Mornings arrive slow, with breath visible in the crisp air and frost dusting the dry grass like powdered sugar. Winter is lingering—stubborn, beautiful, and utterly Kalahari.

The veld lies still, golden and brittle, stretching under a bright cold sky. Yet, the silence doesn’t last long. Laughter echoes through the house, boots crunch across the yard, and the clatter of coffee mugs marks the start of another day. Our winter days are filled with the joy of hunters who find joy not just in the chase, but in the moments in between—the stories, the meals, the memories. This is Kalahari Safari.

In the quiet moments—between prepping stews and stirring pots—I pause by the basket of lemons. My heart is full of thankfulness and memories that arrive unannounced, like the scent of citrus on a breeze. The sharp, sunlit fragrance takes me back…

To Italy.

To late alfresco dinners in Tuscany. To Positano, where the scent of citrus drifted on the sea breeze. To summer in a glass.

Limoncello. A bold, zesty Italian liqueur made by steeping lemon zest in alcohol. Bright yellow and intensely citrusy, it’s best sipped chilled on a long-awaited summer evening.

I find myself searching for that taste again—that golden memory. Longing for the return of slow, sun-drenched evenings. I scroll through the internet, looking for an authentic recipe, hoping to bottle a little bit of summer before it arrives.

I gather our Kalahari lemons. It will take time. But all good things do.

Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly.

Mae West

While the hunters laugh and share stories around the fire, and the wind whistles outside, a jar of lemon zest quietly steeps in the corner of My Kalahari Kitchen—bottled sunshine.

And when the limoncello is finally ready, we’ll raise our glasses.

To winter in the Kalahari. To memories. And to the joy of citrus and time. – Aldalene

(Recipe on next page)


Kalahari Nights & Chocolate Delights: A Winter Skillet Treat

Winter has quietly crept into the Kalahari — in her usual gentle, golden way. The mornings are crisp and quiet, the air still and clean. Grass shimmers in soft light, and the horizon stretches endlessly, wakened by a slow, amber sunrise. There’s a kind of hush over the land, as if time itself has paused to breathe.

It’s the season when family returns — trucks roll in with dusty tyres, laughter spilling out before the doors even open. Children come home from college, bringing stories of city life, tired textbooks, new friends… and always, a deep hunger for home (and mom’s cooking!).

This is when my Kalahari Kitchen comes alive.

In the end, food is the celebration of family, and family is life’s greatest feast. Lidia Bastianich

Coffee brews in the early light, the aroma drifting through the house. Hands wrap around warm mugs, eyes still soft with sleep, and hearts full of quiet excitement for the day ahead.

These are the days of full hearts and fuller tables. I pull out dog-eared recipes from my mother’s cookbook, flour dusts the counters, and the scent of cinnamon, cocoa, and roasted nuts fills the house.

And what better way to celebrate winter’s quiet magic than with a Warm Chocolate Fudge Skillet Cake — rich, gooey, and best served straight from the pan, with a generous spoon of cream or vanilla ice cream.

This dessert from Half Baked Harvest (love her recipes!) isn’t fancy — but it’s indulgent. Comforting. Honest. The kind of dessert that invites second helpings and long conversations around the fire. This dessert is best enjoyed with wool socks on your feet, good company, and stories that stretch late into the night. Around my kitchen table, each of us armoured with a spoon, we dive into the warm skillet — laughing, sharing, remembering.

So here’s to winter in the Kalahari — a season of slowing down, gathering in, and feeding both body and soul.

With love from my Kalahari kitchen,

Aldalene

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The Simple Truth about Happiness… and an Orange and Yoghurt cake

Orange is the happiest colour. — Frank Sinatra

In the Kalahari winter, the desert’s chill seeps into every corner of my kitchen, where the crisp, invigorating air contrasts sharply with the summer’s dry heat. A basket of vibrant winter citrus fruits sits prominently on my kitchen table, their zesty fragrance wafting through the space and infusing it with a refreshing burst of scent. The house is quiet. As I sit with my journal, gazing out over the cold, dry savannah, I am reminded that our search for happiness often leads us in many directions, sometimes missing a simpler truth. True and lasting happiness is not found in happenings or external circumstances but in a deep relationship with my Father. Psalm 144:15 assures me: “Blessed (happy) are the people whose God is the Lord.” And Ecclesiastes 2:26 adds, “To the person who pleases Him, God gives wisdom, knowledge, and happiness.” As this truth wraps around me like a comforting blanket and I am filled with a profound sense of peace and contentment.

This feeling of tranquility carries over into my kitchen as I prepare to bake an Orange and Cardamom Yoghurt Cake—perfect for a Friday treat. Yes! It is weekend! The aroma of spices—cinnamon, star anise, and cardamom—fuses beautifully with the citrus, creating a captivating scent that envelops me on this cold morning. From the instant I start zesting the oranges, the kitchen takes on the inviting aroma of a charming bake shop. This cake is especially perfect right now—with oranges in season and the warming spices adding their special touch, it’s ideal for these cold winter months.The mingling fragrances of spices and fresh fruit transform my Kalahari kitchen into a warm, joyful retreat, a true celebration of winter’s embrace and the comforting presence of happiness found within.

This is a winter must bake! This cake is guaranteed to bring a smile to your face and add a delightful touch to your weekend.

Orange and Cardamom Yoghurt Cake

Ingredients

  • 250g butter (room temperature)
  • 250 ml (1 cup) castor sugar
  • zest of one orange
  • 3 extra large eggs
  • 375g (2 1/2 cups) self raising flour
  • 5ml (1 teaspoon) grounded cardamom
  • pinch of salt
  • 375ml (1 1/2 cup) greek yoghurt
  • 125ml (1/2 cup) desiccated coconut
  • 30ml (2 tablespoons) poppyseed

Syrup ingredients

  • zest and juice of 2 oranges
  • 125ml (1/2 cup) fresh lemon juice
  • 60ml (1/4 cup) water
  • 250ml (1 cup) caster sugar
  • 60ml (1/4 cup) honey
  • 5 star anise
  • 5 cardamom pods
  • 2 cinnamon sticks

Instructions

  • Preheat the oven to 180C
  • Grease a medium-sized ring from pan and dust with cake flour.
  • Cream the butter and sugar together until light and fluffy.
  • Incorporate the orange zest into the mixture.
  • Add the eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition.
  • Sift the flour, cardamom, and salt together in a separate bowl.
  • Fold the dry ingredients into the egg mixture alternately with the yogurt, starting and ending with the flour mixture.
  • Gently fold in the coconut and poppy seeds until evenly combined.
  • Pour the batter into the prepared tin and smooth the top.
  • Bake for 50 minutes or until a cake tester inserted into the center comes out clean.

While the cake is baking, prepare the syrup.

  • Combine all syrup ingredients in a small pot.
  • Heat the pot over medium heat, stirring until the sugar dissolves.
  • Bring the syrup to a boil, then let it simmer for 5 minutes. (The delightful aroma of the spices will fill your kitchen!)
  • Remove the cake from the oven and allow it to cool slightly before turning it out of the tin.
  • Place the cake on a cooling rack.
  • Gently pour the hot syrup over the cake, allowing it to soak in.

Top the cake with a generous dollop of whipped cream, allowing its creamy sweetness to elevate each bite. For an extra touch, sprinkle some chopped pistachios on top of your cake, letting them adhere to the sticky, sweet syrup. This cake is guaranteed to bring a smile to your face and add a delightful touch to your weekend.

Whoever is happy will make others happy. ― Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl


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Life and Lemons

brown plant and flowers

I cannot believe we are one third into 2021. It has been a whirlwind few months with many changes in our home… we are all still trying to adjust to a new normal. Children are far off at college, our house is quiet and we are adjusting to a so called new-normal. 2020 has shown us that nothing stays the same for long–rather, seasons come and go naturally with the predictable (and unpredictable) transformations that our world endures.

“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.”

– Alan W. Watts

The change of seasons excites me! Days are becoming shorter, evenings longer. I love autumn! As summer’s light dims and the leaves begin to fall, I like autumn’s reminder that a meaningful life isn’t only about productivity, but transition too.

Autumn is a time of beauty, of harvesting and of shedding the old. While autumn is a time of productivity, it is also a time of completion and transition.I love the quote that reads: If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living.

Discerning the seasons of our lives isn’t always easy. The Book of Ecclesiastes says there’s ‘a season for every activity under heaven’ it is wonderful to know that our Lord is involved in all this too. God has tasks for us to do, seasons for us to do them in, and wants to guide us through each of them. I am reminded every day through this new season that it is all a choice- a choice to live expectantly. To live attentively. To live with significance. And embrace the seasons of life.

Breathe the air, drink the drink, taste the fruit! And with all the beautiful lemons in season, I am tempted to bake these easy lemon bars. These are classic lemon bars featuring a soft butter shortbread crust and a tangy sweet lemon curd filling that’s baked to the perfect consistency. The lemon layer is thick and substantial, not thin or flimsy like most other lemon bar recipes.

Lemon bars are one of the EASIEST desserts to make but they’re guaranteed to bring a smile to your face; so bright and zingy with all the lemon flavour from the juice and zest, they’re simply irresistible! So Yes! When life gives you lemons- bake lemon bars!!

Recipe on page 2.


Life is a journey, not a destination.

potted blooming succulents plant in garden
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And the day finally arrived. The day I have to drop my daughters off for college. The day to move them in — hauling boxes, moving furniture, hanging pictures and folding clothes. The day to realise that this is the start of a new season… a new journey for all of us. It is time to say good bye after a (can I call it wonderful?) year of having them both home. Time to say good bye to girly giggles on the drive back from school, shoes and hair ties scattered around the house, long hours next to the netball court cheering them on. It is time for them to leave the nest… to fly… to soar. And for me to take a back seat and watch them thrive.

There are two things we should give our children:one is roots and the other is wings.

Author Unknown

But as you may yourself have experienced, this is easier said than done. We returned home yesterday- the home to countless sleepovers and movie dates, brownie baking marathons and early morning coffees around the kitchen table. Home of wonderful mother-daughter heart to heart talks and memories. And yes I cried… I cried so often, I thought my tear ducts would dry up completely.

“How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”

A.A. Milne (Winnie-the-Pooh)

These were not necessarily sad tears, just mama tears filled with mixed emotions, coupled with the reality that my little girls were growing up and this new season of life was here to stay.

It is hard to leave behind the idea of hands-on parenting; realizing that this time they are on her own, soaring, dipping and diving 900 miles away without me watching. I have to reconcile how to shift from full-time to distance parenting with my girls, and thinking about how to avoid smothering Janneman that is still home. I have to let go.

After years of being so intentional about raising your child well, it is hard to take on a new role. Yes, there will be an adjustment in the relationship. I will no longer bear primary responsibility for my daughters. But I am reminded that we have trained them up and now have the joy of watching them grow and learn in adulthood.

Maybe the real challenge of teaching our children to soar is teaching myself. Teaching myself to let go of control and to entrust them to God, who loves them far more than I ever can! As moms, we want to keep our kids safe, protect them from pain, fix their problems, make their decisions and steer them in the right direction. However, there comes a time when we realize we aren’t in control anymore and have to accept that our children’s futures are in God’s hands, not ours.

What a comfort and peace it brings to remember God is always in control and ever present in my children’s lives, even when we can no longer be.

“He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; He gently leads those that have young.” (NIV)

Isaiah 40:11

So as I am writing this, I pray for their safety and happiness. I pray that they will grow and flourish, that they will remember their roots and find their wings to fly, to soar! And I cannot wait for their return back home! When I can fill the kitchen with their favourite dishes and sit around the table, sharing in the stories of their new life. I relate to the the quote of Charles Dickens: “The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again.” I have joy, for we will meet again.

I love you. – Mom