Finding Hope in the Kalahari (and a spoonful of chocolate ice cream)

Summer has finally graced the Kalahari with its arrival, bringing with it the first whispers of rain and that indescribable earthy scent that fills the air. After enduring what some reports have called the driest year in Namibia in a century, we’re all holding our breath, praying, and hoping for more rain. There’s an undeniable sense of anticipation in the air.

This expectant waiting for rain, got me reflecting on the role of hope in our lives. It’s easy to let hope become just a fleeting wish, something we cling to when times are tough. I’m reminded of a favourite scripture from 1 Peter 3:15: “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” It’s a powerful reminder for me to examine whether my hope is something real and substantial or just wishful thinking.

Wishful thinking is when we choose to believe something will happen, despite little evidence to suggest it will actually happen, usually just to make ourselves feel better. I hope to lose 10 pounds. (That’s pretty common this time of year!)I hope my husband remembers our anniversary (this is wishful thinking!). These hopes, while valid, are grounded in our desires and often rely on chance or circumstances.

Hope is praying for rainbut faith is bringing an umbrella– Unknown

But for us, the evidence on which we can base our hope is God’s own character — demonstrated most clearly to us in Jesus Christ. We believe that God is good, faithful, and capable of fulfilling His promises. Our hope isn’t dependent on our circumstances (like a parched Kalahari savannah landscape) but on a firm conviction that God will remain true to His word. This hope is anchored in the assurance of who God is.

As we navigate this week, let’s anchor ourselves in this genuine hope. Let our lives reflect a deep-seated confidence in God’s promises. As Colossians 1:27 puts it, “Christ in you, the hope of glory.” May we live out this hope so visibly that others will be curious and ask us about it.

So today with summer blazing in the Kalahari and hope blossoming in my heart, I’m on the lookout for a cool dessert for the guests in my Kalahari kitchen. It has to be ice cream- my absolute favourite dessert, no matter the flavour, season, or time of day. I keep the hope of a delicious scoop in my freezer at all times! I reach for the dark chocolate in my pantry (my other guilty pleasure) and decide to make a chocolate ice cream that melts luxuriously on your tongue. Two kinds of chocolate and real cream make this the best and easiest chocolate ice cream you can make at home. It will fill you with hope!


What’s In My Cup?

It’s that time of year. Shop windows fill up with brightly-coloured, twinkly light holiday displays, and living room windows fill up with Christmas trees. Festive music plays on repeat. If you’re like me, this is the time of year when you realize Christmas is fast approaching and the year went far too quickly.

For many of us, this is also one of our busiest times of the year. If you have school kids, you’re swamped with Christmas concerts, school year end functions and the thick fog of final papers and exams. After lockdown it feels like we are still trying to make up for the missed months. In between all the busyness,you want to create the most perfect family vacation and a special Christmas celebrations. Yes, November/December season is packed with parties, decorations, presents, so many events and above all, meeting everyone’s expectations.

I love this analogy I stumbled upon this week. And it reminds me of the scripture that reads “For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of” (Matthew 12:34; Luke 6:45).

You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.

Why did you spill the coffee?

“Because someone bumped into me!!!”

Wrong answer.

You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup.

Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.

*Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.*

The bumping is simply the catalyst to reveal what was tucked inside.

Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It’s easy to fake it, until you get rattled or busy or frazzled or overwhelmed.

So today we have to ask ourselves… “what’s in my cup?”

When life gets tough, what spills over?

Joy, gratefulness, peace, joy and humility?

Anger, bitterness, harsh words and reactions?

Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it.

Friend, I do not know what is in your cup right now but if you are in any version of normal, there is a lot of coffee-infused exam nerves and cinnamon-spiced holiday stress. The demands are overwhelming and if you are like me, this time of year also brings a reflection of all the ways that 2020 did not measure up to expectations.

So today, let’s work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation; and kindness, gentleness and love for others. For life will bump into us. But a heart full of Jesus doesn’t get bruised when it gets bumped.

And when the hustle and bustle of this season seems to drain you from all your good intentions and you get bumped around, there is always ice cream and coffee. Affogato is an Italian classic dessert and means “drowned” in Italian as it is essentially drowning ice cream in coffee. The hot coffee starts to melt the ice cream and forms a thick foam at the top. The best way to eat an affogato is with a spoon, eat the ice cream first and then drink the coffee along with any melted ice cream.

Affogato is so good, you won’t believe it is so elegant, easy, delicious and only needs two ingredients. Perfect to round off any festive menu or as a late night treat. I am filling my cup now! Recipe page 2