When Winter Whispers and Tastes Like Lemon

A wooden board featuring several bowls of lemon dessert topped with lemon slices and powdered sugar, alongside fresh lemons and leaves.

Winter has settled gently over the Kalahari.

Wrapped in a warm blanket, with a steaming cup of coffee in my hands, my Bible open on my lap and my journal beside me, I settle onto the porch as the first light breaks across the Kalahari savannah. The air is crisp enough to sting my cheeks, yet there is something about a Kalahari winter that embraces you like a well-worn fleece blanket—quiet, comforting and deeply restorative.

The men have already left. Just before sunrise, rifles slung over their shoulders, they headed out in search of an old kudu bull. The house is unusually still. It’s my favourite kind of silence—the kind that allows you to hear the whisper of God’s voice.

I breathe deeply. The cold morning air carries the unmistakable fragrance of freshly picked lemons. An earthenware pot on the kitchen table is overflowing with bright yellow fruit from my mother-in-law’s little tree, a splash of sunshine against the muted colours of winter.

This morning I find myself in Galatians 6.

“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. The one who sows to please the flesh will reap destruction from the flesh, but the one who sows to the Spirit will reap eternal life from the Spirit. Let us not grow weary of doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people.”
Galatians 6:7–10

Those words linger in my heart.

The harvest we receive is always of the same nature as the seed we sow.

How often we long for different fruit in our lives. We pray for peace, yet sow impatience. We desire strong relationships, yet plant criticism. We long for joy, but scatter seeds of worry. We hope for kindness, yet our words can so easily wound.

God’s principle is beautifully simple.

If we long to harvest love, we must sow love.

If we desire peace, we must become peacemakers.

If we long for joyful homes, faithful friendships and hearts full of grace, then those are the very seeds we must faithfully scatter every single day.

And perhaps the hardest encouragement of all is this: do not grow weary.

Seeds spend a long time hidden beneath the soil before anyone sees the harvest. Yet beneath the surface, God is already at work.

Winter teaches us this so well.

The trees appear bare. The veld seems quiet. But life is quietly preparing for the season to come.

With those thoughts still turning in my heart, I carry an armfull of fragrant lemons into the kitchen.

Today these beautiful winter fruits will become one of my favourite comforting desserts—a Self-Saucing Lemon Pudding. Light as a soufflé on top, with a silky lemon sauce waiting underneath, it’s the perfect way to welcome hungry hunters home after a cold day in the veld.

As the pudding bakes, the whole house fills with the scent of warm butter and fresh lemons. Soon the quiet will be broken by dusty boots on the porch, stories of kudu tracks, and laughter around the table.

And perhaps that’s another reminder that some of life’s sweetest harvests are found not only in what we grow—but in what we lovingly share.

May we all sow seeds that one day become a harvest of faith, kindness, joy and love.

Because in God’s perfect time, we always reap what we sow.

With love from my Kalahari kitchen, Aldalene


Life and Lemons

brown plant and flowers

I cannot believe we are one third into 2021. It has been a whirlwind few months with many changes in our home… we are all still trying to adjust to a new normal. Children are far off at college, our house is quiet and we are adjusting to a so called new-normal. 2020 has shown us that nothing stays the same for long–rather, seasons come and go naturally with the predictable (and unpredictable) transformations that our world endures.

“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.”

– Alan W. Watts

The change of seasons excites me! Days are becoming shorter, evenings longer. I love autumn! As summer’s light dims and the leaves begin to fall, I like autumn’s reminder that a meaningful life isn’t only about productivity, but transition too.

Autumn is a time of beauty, of harvesting and of shedding the old. While autumn is a time of productivity, it is also a time of completion and transition.I love the quote that reads: If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living.

Discerning the seasons of our lives isn’t always easy. The Book of Ecclesiastes says there’s ‘a season for every activity under heaven’ it is wonderful to know that our Lord is involved in all this too. God has tasks for us to do, seasons for us to do them in, and wants to guide us through each of them. I am reminded every day through this new season that it is all a choice- a choice to live expectantly. To live attentively. To live with significance. And embrace the seasons of life.

Breathe the air, drink the drink, taste the fruit! And with all the beautiful lemons in season, I am tempted to bake these easy lemon bars. These are classic lemon bars featuring a soft butter shortbread crust and a tangy sweet lemon curd filling that’s baked to the perfect consistency. The lemon layer is thick and substantial, not thin or flimsy like most other lemon bar recipes.

Lemon bars are one of the EASIEST desserts to make but they’re guaranteed to bring a smile to your face; so bright and zingy with all the lemon flavour from the juice and zest, they’re simply irresistible! So Yes! When life gives you lemons- bake lemon bars!!

Recipe on page 2.